Entering the world of sugar dating is not a come and take away. Being sugar daddy not only means having money, but also knowing how to move, with respect, transparency and good vibes. Because if you want the experience to be great for both of you, you have to understand that this goes far beyond the wallet. So here's a clear guide on what to do (and what not to do) if you want to be a decent sugar daddy, not just a sugar daddy.
As the saying goes: "Better safe than sorry, compadre."
1. Get to the point: be clear about time expectations.
Don't put on a show. Your time is worth it, hers too. Many sugar baby study, work or have their own projects, so don't expect them to be available 24/7 for you.
Agree from the beginning: when you will see each other, how often and for how long. If both of you are clear about the movie, you will avoid unpleasantness. It is better to discuss everything than to guess.
2. Don't be a jerk: don't think you have the right to have sex on the first date.
This is key, loco. If you are looking for an express affair, you'd better go somewhere else. Here the thing is different: sugar babes want a partner who will give them stability, affection and good vibes, not a rooster who just wants to hurry up and bye-bye.
As Gabriela Mistral used to say: "Respect for the rights of others is peace." And here, respect comes first. Do not assume anything.
3. Speak with firmness: honesty first and foremost.
There's nothing more shameless than beating around the bush. If you know what you want, tell it like it is. You want company for events, someone to travel with, a more stable relationship... whatever it is, express yourself without fear!
This way you filter out those who are at the same stop as you and you don't waste time, neither you nor she. Being direct is not being annoying, it's being efficient. And it is appreciated.
4. Don't disappear like a ghost
If you agreed to meet her and in the end you are not going to go, let her know. The least you can do is to have the decency to tell her that you won't be there. If you lost interest, the same thing: be an adult and talk things over. It doesn't cost anything.
Remember that friend who is always late and never calls? Well, don't be that friend. Be a gentleman. In this type of relationship, manners matter a lot.
5. Give things because he deserves them, not because he asks for them.
This is the difference between a real sugar daddy and a "cheapskate with a generous look". If you really want to spoil her, invite her to dinner, buy her something nice, surprise her with a trip. She doesn't have to go around asking or hinting.
If you want to be with someone who accompanies you, listens to you and makes your day, it is only fair that you also contribute to their happiness. And that is not only about money, but also about details, attention, caring.
In short, so that you don't get caught flying low
Being a good sugardaddy is not just about having money in your pocket. It's about being a good person, knowing what you want and acting with respect. Successful relationships are born when you are both on the same page, when there is chemistry, clear agreements and good vibes in between.
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